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Sexual harassment

Thursday

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By read­ing the title “Sex­ual harass­ment” you might be won­der­ing what am I going to write.

No, I did not paid to be molested this time, but I had been molested by an uncle in the sauna room today.

Don’t laugh, it’s not funny okay. Do you laugh at your friend is she got raped by some guy? Okay maybe that’s dif­fer­ent case. But this, is my case.

I went to the gym as usual but it was slightly late because I had to set­tle some­thing for my boss. I reach the gym around 8.30 pm and I fin­ish my work­out around 10 pm.

So I went into the sauna room after I took a quick and hot shower. The room was empty and it was darker than usual due to one of the light sources were not functioning.

As usual, I like to take off the bath towel and cover my pri­vate part with only the hand towel. But of course I always do it in a way that no one can see the impor­tant part.

Just as I was enjoy­ing the heat and my sweat started drop­ping like run­ning water, one uncle seemed to be in his 40’s came in.

The seats in the sauna room forms an L shape. It has two lev­els, the upper deck and the lower deck. I was sit­ting at the upper deck at the mid­dle of the L shape. This uncle came in and sit at the oppo­site of the lower deck at my right hand side.

At his posi­tion, his eye sight is at the same level of my… ehem… you know what. I tried to look at him in his face, but he didn’t care and he kept star­ing at my… you know what.

“Oh no… not again,” I told myself because this is not the first time peo­ple stalk at me in the sauna.

He broke the ice by ask­ing “do you want to pour more water?”

I looked at him and said, “It’s ok if you want to, I don’t mind.”

“Oh I was just asking.”

“Okay.”

“So how long you’ve been work­ing out at the gym?”

“Around one year.”

“Wah not bad. You can have such a nice body in one year.”

“No lah. There are still a lot to improve.”

“You stay some­where nearby? Why so late still come to the gym?”

“Yeah, stay some­where in Puchong. I had some­thing to do that’s why I was late.”

“Oh… you come here alone ar?”

“Yeah, I’m alone. Used to join together with a few friends but now left only me.”

“Hahaha… it’s like that one lah. But if you see your own results you will feel good.”

While he was say­ing that, he stood up and walk to my left side.

“You have very nice arms,” he said that while squeez­ing my left arm.

“No lah,” I said.

“No really, you have nice chest too,” he then pressed around my chest. I started to feel weird and uncomfortable.

While I was think­ing what should I say or do to stop him, his hand already moved fur­ther down to my abdom­i­nal, “nice six-pack also, but if you can work­out your lower abs, your six-pack would be more obvious.”

Okay this is way too over. It had to stop. But it seemed like he still want to go fur­ther down, I quickly use my hand to block my, ehem… you know what, then only he let his hand off me.

“Oh you feel itchy huh.”

I look at him and didn’t say anything.

“I ar… I’m going out to have a drink,” he went out leav­ing me alone in the sauna.

With­out any fur­ther hes­i­ta­tion, I quickly grabbed my bath towel and left the sauna room as soon as possible.

Never thought that some­thing like this would hap­pen. My spon­ta­neous reac­tion data­base do not have the record for coun­ter­ing this situation.

Now I know. I would know what to do next time.

Thursday

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This post has 18 comments

CommentNo. 1

kopiais11 June 20091:56 AM

.….ehem.….amen~~

CommentNo. 2

wong11 June 20099:17 AM

Grab, Squeeze and Turn <– Man self defend technique!

Author’s CommentNo. 3

Den­nis11 June 200910:59 AM

@kopiais
Are you a christian???

@wong
Yeah it sounds just like you… Mr. Geng Ster…

CommentNo. 4

Grace11 June 20093:05 PM

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CommentNo. 5

max12 June 20092:20 AM

Now you even attract­ing old uncle liao… nyek nyek!

CommentNo. 6

max12 June 20092:23 AM

I think stranger squeeze arms already weird jor la =.=

CommentNo. 7

ahzenn12 June 20095:38 PM

oh my god… so geli…

CommentNo. 8

ahjong12 June 20097:45 PM

yiiii~ that ah bek so ham­sap one

CommentNo. 9

Se@n13 June 20091:09 AM

creepy~

CommentNo. 10

Dan13 June 20091:31 PM

whack that fella !!!

CommentNo. 11

Cornflake14 June 200910:29 AM

o_O!! So sorry to ffk you that day…

CommentNo. 12

Ervin Ter14 June 20094:49 PM

lol.… faster cabut la..

CommentNo. 13

daijiaoking16 June 20092:20 PM

Nxt time if he kacau u again, u squeeze his pri­vate part & ask him to apologize.

CommentNo. 14

Privee16 June 20098:40 PM

I hope i was as strong as you. I was molested when i was 18, the same way you did. And i let it happen :(

Author’s CommentNo. 15

Den­nis16 June 200911:34 PM

@Cornflake
Aiya no wor­ries… I don’t think it will make a dif­fer­ence even if you were there… coz we fin­ish work­out at dif­fer­ent time…

@daijiaoking
Like that become me sex­u­ally harass him already lor…

@Privee
What? You let it hap­pen until what level? But can’t blame you, you were still young… Not every­one will know what to do the first time… hmmm… sounds weird…

CommentNo. 16

dora21 June 20096:49 PM

In order not to attract these kind of mon­ster… you hv 2 options.

Since its man only spa facil­ity, you might as well take off and being naked; or put towel over like after u took a shower. Never never try to be funny cover only pri­vate part. I been to china spa b4, there are no door/curtain on each shower rooms. Noth­ing to be shy about, you have 1, I also have 1.

Imag­ine if you see a gal naked on beach with­out shy or a mad naked gal run­ning around, you will not star­ing at her. You only will never try to stop peep/stare gals wear sexy.

CommentNo. 17

Privee22 June 20099:54 PM

until reach level which is not appro­pri­ate to be dis­cussed here. :(

CommentNo. 18

Rick19 September 20097:49 AM

Been keen on your blog. Thanks 4 post­ing d arti­cles. But tis wan on sex­ual har­rass­ment is so funny. U sound like a vir­gin… it hap­pens all d time at sauna lei. I had more than a few encoun­ters but mayb dun wanna say much pub­licly haha

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